The state of Christopher 2012
My sister died on January 20th, Sarah’s 9-month birthday. She was sixteen. We knew this time was coming, but it’s still a difficult thing to face.
I’ve been in California since January 18th. Sarah is in New York with Dec. I feel like I will never be happy again.
Sarah Defies Gravity 
Oh Christopher, I’m so sorry. I know people like to tell us that it’s easier to take when it’s expected or have a chance to say goodbye, but I don’t agree with that at all. I think it just gives us a longer time period of trauma that accumulates into the moment when our loved one passes. I hope you’re able to find some peace.
I am so sorry to read of your sister’s passing. May you find peace.
Christopher, my heart breaks for you. I’m so glad your sister was able to meet Sarah but I know that her time her was cut entirely too short. I am so sorry and I hope people are surrounding your family with love right now. In all seriousness, if there’s anything we can do from afar, please share. I wish there were words to comfort you and your family right now.
Oh, Chris. I am so so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
I am so sorry Christopher. My thoughts are with you and your family. 😦
Christopher, I am so sorry for the loss of your sister and Sarah’s aunt. I’m sorry I’m late saying so, I only just now found out.
Your sister helped to prepare you to be Sarah’s father. Give Sarah an extra snuggle. You both need and deserve it.
I’m so, so, so very sorry for the loss of your sister. I know there are no words that can bring comfort, I wouldn’t attempt it. I just want you to know this strangers heart breaks for your loss.